Oddly enough, for many, there is rarely a day that goes by where we procrastinate making a decision because we experience a lack of self-confidence or feelings of self-doubt.
The standards set, while growing up into adulthood, had most of us depending on others – parents, teachers, and relatives – for direction and guidance that set up our self-image and levels of confidence. Unfortunately, during that period of time, we experienced more no’s than yes’s. As a result we either rebelled or we succumb to the expectations of others – looking to them for approval — embedding in us expectation levels of perfectionism and shaping our self-image.